Ella and Allie Clark, and Keegan!

The Clark family has been waiting and waiting and waiting. They have even met Ella and Allie! Can you imagine how impatient they must be getting? They are $3000 from being fully funded and they have a plan together for $1300. That leaves $1700 that they still need before they leave to pick up their girls!

Have y'all heard about the Finishers? Long story short, they have helped several adoptive families, including the  Reeds, Coles, and the Rhodes, who are very special to us. 

Anyway, the Finishers have an $800 matching grant available for the Clark family. This will bring them SO close, if not completely fully funded. Anybody feel like helping out? If you do, you can do it here. But hurry! The matching grant ends TOMORROW night at 11pm! If you can't donate, please pray for a good outcome!

On another note, Keegan has a family! He stole my heart when I saw him, maybe because he is so young. He could even be mine. His birth parents may even be around my age. Please pray for his family, that they will have a smooth process, and for him a smooth transition into the family!

Happy Birthday, Sam!

Today is Sam's birthday. His 16th birthday in an orphanage. Does he have a cake? Will his friends sing Happy Birthday? Will he get to open presents? Will he get to blow out candles and make a wish? If he does, he will probably be wishing for a family. He doesn't know that his wish will be coming true within a few weeks! What a birthday present that will be! He doesn't know how many people are thinking "Happy Birthday, Sam!" today.
Think about your 16th birthday. It was happy, right? You were probably showered with presents, money, kisses, hugs. But in an orphanage, it is a scary birthday. If not adopted (or at least filed with USCIS) by 16, they are turned out to the street, or put in a mental institution. At 16. Just a kid. Fending for themselves.
Sam is one of the lucky ones. Many of the older ones, especially the boys, are picked last if they are picked at all. Let's help make this year the last year of lonely birthdays for these orphans. Maybe you're not in a position to adopt, but you can still help. You could pray. You could give a few dollars to an orphans grant. Everything helps. Anything helps.

How Special They Really Are

What is a special need? Most people think "down syndrome". They don't realize that in other countries, people with just a slight difference are considered special needs.

Sam has amniotic banding on his fingers, so his fingers look different. When I did some research, I realized that it's more common than you probably think. 1 in 1,200 babies are born with it. Considering that there are millions and millions of people in the world, that's a lot of babies with amniotic band syndrome. And guess what? The ones born in America aren't put in an orphanage just because their fingers are different. They're just like everybody else. It's not a special need here.

Duncan has cerebal palsy. So he is in a special need orphanage. He uses a walker, and can move around just like everybody else, if only a little slower, and he may have a little trouble with stairs. Again, not a special need here.

 We already know how special the boys can be. They have changed my family forever (in a good way). 

Look at Estelle. In her country, HIV is a special need. (I'm still not seeing a special need.)Why is she in an institution? She can't help it that she has HIV. She doesn't get a chance at real education, a real boyfriend, anything. She should be in school, counting down the days til summer vacation, ordering her yearbooks, choosing classes for her first year in high school. Not worrying if her forever family will ever come for her. Not worrying that she will be thrown out on the street when she ages out, and being without the medicine she needs.

Steven, with fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS), and HIV+. So he's in an orphanage. Instead of starting kindergarten. Instead of learning to read, and wiping boogers on girls during naptime (oh, wait, was that just my kindergarten class?), he's in an orphanage, waiting. (Special need? Maybe special medicine, but that's it.)

Keegan, with down syndrome. He's only a year old, and going to an institution if someone doesn't come for him  soon. He WILL be such a blessing to his family when they find him. Keegan is who people think of when you say "special needs." But really, he just needs a special family, who will love him just the way he is. I used to work with a woman who has down syndrome. I remember someone whispering to me the first time I worked with her, "That's S. She's special." This scared me, and I avoided her, (which I now regret.) I never would have thought that she would end up being so special to me, even two years after she quit working there.

Guess what? With the exception of FAS, my family knows someone who has every condition in this blog (or something close). These are successful, wonderful people. Parents, hard workers, business owners. Not what these countries think they are. 

These kids just need a chance. A chance to prove they're not just fragile little burdens on society. A chance to show everyone what they can do. A chance to make a difference. A chance to know God and everything He can do. A chance to show how special they really are.

Can you help give them their chance? Sam and Duncan, they have families on the way. They'll be home picking on their brothers and sisters and flirting and getting to start high school next year. But Estelle? Steven? They're still waiting. Waiting for their chance.

I'm not saying to go adopt them. Adoption isn't right for everybody. But you can donate. You can pray. Anything.  Please don't just say "Oh, I can't help" because you can help. God didn't leave us as orphans. He adopted us into His family. How can we sit back and let these orphans sit in orphanages, institutions, be thrown onto the street? We can't. We just can't, it's that simple.

John 14:18
I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.

Go Count The Waste.

Tonight at work, I counted the waste and looked at all the leftover food we had to throw away. What would y'all think when you saw 20 chicken tenders, 10 pieces of bacon, and 3 spicy chickens? "Don't throw that away! Starving kids in India would love to have that!" It's just what some people say when you waste perfectly good food. But tonight I realized that its not just something you say. Its real. There are starving kids everywhere, who would seriously love to have the stuff we throw away. How come we can buy a drink from a machine, and ice cream at the store, and name brand bread instead of Walmart brand, but we can't help to save some of these orphans? Be happy to have the choice of water and ice cream and bread at all!Yes, some orphans are well-cared for. The boy's orphanage is pretty nice, from what we know. But they're not all so lucky. Some of them are starved, or only given enough nutrients to keep them alive, but not to grow like they need to. Some are forced to lie in their beds, with wet diapers and vomit. Is this how you would let your child live? Here is the story of an orphanage in Pleven, Bulgaria. I can not imagine how these kids feel. They must be so scared. Help feed these orphans! This is so sad. Why not take the $1.50 for that drink, the $4.00 for the ice cream, and put it towards an adoption fund? For a month, or even a week. Whether it be for the Picketts, the Rogers, the Quinns, or maybe, just maybe, your own child's adoption? These are just a few of the families who are so special to us. Anything makes a difference. Whether it be $5, $10, $100, or a note letting them know that you're praying for them, it all makes a huge difference.

 Matthew 25:37

“Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You drink?

God is in everything we do. We may not see Him, but He may be that starving, thirsty orphan. Let Him lead you. Let Him show you what He wants you to do. Don't fight it. "IF I had the money, IF I had the time, IF I had somebody to watch my kid." IF, IF, IF, I, I, I. You can't just do it when it's convenient for you. Because it's not about you! It's about helping to make a difference. He will provide the money, the time, the babysitter. Don't waste time waiting for it to make sense. Take a step in faith and let God hold your hand. He won't let you fall.

Fundraisers

Feel like helping an adopting family today? The Picketts are in the process of bringing their children from Eastern Europe, and they need your help! Click here to find out how to enter their AWESOME giveaway! You could win a Thirty-One bag, a book wreath, teardrop hoop earrings or a framed silhouette. These are only some of the awesome prizes!
You could also help the Quinn family. They have a Traveling T-Shirt fundraiser. Just donate $5 (or more?) and leave them your address to mail it to, and you can sign the t-shirt for Autumn. Not only will this help bring her home, but it will also give them a visual reminder of just how many people have helped! You could even help them with their Flapjack Fundraiser. Even if you aren't close enough to volunteer, you could still donate the $10 for a ticket!
How about helping the Rogers family bring home Bernadette and Mason? They just got home with Clare and Malachi. Having gone through the adoption process before, they will really appreciate any help! You can help them by participating in the giveaway Mandy is doing for them here.
Of course, all of these families will all appreciate any prayers too. They are all following God's call to care for orphans, and it can not be easy! Let's keep them encouraged!